Friday, November 18, 2011

How To Get Your Ex To Want You Back

There are many reasons that people break up.  They grow apart.  They move away from each other.  They are constantly fighting.  They find someone else.
No matter what the reason, break ups are difficult and painful.  Perhaps the worst pain is when the breakup was not mutual.  You still want to be together but your ex wants to call it quits.
So what do you do when faced with this situation?  You need to take some action if you want to rebuild the relationship.  If you want to know how to get your ex to want you back, follow some of these tips:
Tip #1: Remind him why he fell in love with you
After people have been in a relationship for a long time, they start to notice the little things that get on ones nerves.  Your partner doesn’t do the dishes, they snore in their sleep, or maybe they are always wear the same pair of baggy old sweatpants to the grocery store.  Whatever those annoying habits are, you need to counteract them by reminding your ex why they fell in love with you. 
Did they ever comment about a specific outfit that made you look fantastic?  Wear it.  Did you two share lots of laughs when you did a certain activity?  Try to recreate that feeling. 
Do not try to have deep conversations with your ex about why they broke up with you.  Keep things lighthearted and remind them of all the reasons you two got together.
Tip #2:  Pay attention to his signals
When you try to figure out how to get your ex to want you back, it is easy to fall into desperation mode and focus solely on your own emotions.  Of course you want them back, but you need to watch for some signals that they have some of the same feelings.
If your ex initiates contact, is flirtatious with you, and goes out of their way to help you out those are signs they may want to get back together.  On the other hand, if your ex never responds to your texts or says he “needs some space” those are signs you may be coming on too strong and need to take a different tactic.  You do not want to risk scaring your ex away for good.
Tip #3:  Practice what you are going to say
It is easy to let emotions take over when you meet with your ex.  You may lose your calm and say something you will later regret.  Go into each meeting or conversation with a clear plan of action in place.
If you feel yourself starting to get worked up, try to have an exit strategy in place so you regroup and don’t say anything that will harm your chances of getting back together.
I hope you have found these tips on how to get your ex to want you back helpful.

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