Get Back With Ex Now

Breaking up is painful and hard.  But it doesn’t have to be permanent.  Sometimes relationships are not meant to be.  On the other hand, some relationships just need a little help to get back on track.

Follow these “get back with ex” tips and you may be reuniting with your ex in no time:

#1:  Figure out what was broken

Now is the time to reflect on your relationship to figure out what went wrong in the first place.  Those who do not learn from their mistakes are doomed to repeat them.  Think about the times you fought and write down the causes or topics.  You need to get to the root of why you two broke up before you try to get back with your ex.

#2:  Take a breather

They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder.  That is especially true of couples that have just broken up.  If you are constantly calling your ex or trying to keep in touch so they don’t forget about you then you need to stop that behavior.  This is the hardest step for some people but it is the most critical.  If you two had a deep relationship, your ex is not going to forget about you if you break off contact for awhile.

#3:  Don’t take it so seriously

If you want to get back with ex you need to be a bit less serious.  How many conversations have you had with your ex that are full of drama?  You need to remind your ex of the good times the two of you shared.  Your attitude should be “I don’t care if we get back together or not.” 

Of course, you really do want to get back together.  You just can’t let your ex in on that little secret. 

The key is to be relaxed, confident in yourself and have a good time.  People are attracted to people that are positive and fun-loving. 

#4:  Start slow

Now that you are in the right frame of mind to start talking with you ex again, take things slowly.  Don’t jump right into talking about being in a relationship again.  Try to set up a time for a non-committal get-together.  Meet for coffee or touch base at a friend’s party.  If you try to get back together right away you run the risk of scaring of your ex. 

Keep faith that if you two were meant to be together it will happen in time.